July 25, 2014
In Light Of The New 50 Shades of Grey Trailer

bemusedlybespectacled:

yourspecialneuron:

fuckyeahsexpositivity:

E.L. James knows as much about BDSM as she would have found in a five minute Google search, which is to say that she knows precisely jack shit.

50 Shades of Grey does not depict a realistic kinky relationship, nor does it depict a healthy relationship of either the kinky or vanilla variety.

It is a Twilight fanfic, and has all the elements of Edward and Bella’s abusive relationship with kink added for extra flavor. Just as Edward and Bella are not a healthy or realistic couple, neither are Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele.

Christian Grey is an abuser who manipulates a young woman with zero knowledge of BDSM into a relationship with him. He knows she is ignorant of what a healthy BDSM relationship looks like, and uses this to:

  • ignore and override her attempts at negotiation,
  • play without a safeword (since she doesn’t know that they exist),
  • create a false dichotomy of “either we’re kinky my way or we just don’t have sex at all,”
  • threaten and stalk her,
  • rape her,
  • prevent her from discussing her relationship with anyone other than him,
  • and control aspects of her personal life, including what car she drives, what medications she takes, and how she spends her free time.

This is not BDSM. This is not sexy. This is abuse.

Using 50 Shades as your basis for how a kinky relationship works (for critical or practical purposes) is like treating Titanic: The Legend Goes On as a historical documentary. Don’t do it.

—BB

Woah. He controls her medicine? That’s even more fucked than I thought.

Yeah, he brings a doctor to his house who prescribes her hormonal birth control on his orders (because he doesn’t like periods). YUP.

(via coffeebuddha)

July 25, 2014
WHEN ONE IS EXPECTING

imyourdestinymotherfucker:

Today, I bought this book (for my sister, lets clarify that now ‘cause the only way I’m going anywhere near sperm is if I fall into a vat of it):

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BUT WAIT

THIS:

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IS:

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SOME:

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OF THE BRILLIANT:

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STUFF IT HAS IN IT:

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July 25, 2014
earthshaker1217:

countess-nara:

buckyoubucky:

"A new study shows that men are threatened by confident women taking pictures of themselves, and call these women stupid, socially inept, and ugly. In other news, the world is round, the sky is blue, and the patriarchy is still shitty."

THIS ^^^^^^^^

^^^^^ The fact that people actually spend money on these studies to research shit that irrelevant irritates me. Do you know how much money goes into committing research?

earthshaker1217:

countess-nara:

buckyoubucky:

"A new study shows that men are threatened by confident women taking pictures of themselves, and call these women stupid, socially inept, and ugly. In other news, the world is round, the sky is blue, and the patriarchy is still shitty."

THIS ^^^^^^^^

^^^^^
The fact that people actually spend money on these studies to research shit that irrelevant irritates me. Do you know how much money goes into committing research?

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July 25, 2014

glitterandghouls:

"What are your qualifications?!"

Beetlejuice (1988)

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July 25, 2014

tastefullyoffensive:

Anatomy of Songs [wronghands]

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July 25, 2014

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July 25, 2014

Emilia Clarke in the Game of Thrones S4 bloopers

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July 25, 2014
"Asking women to respect themselves in order to ‘earn’ the right to be treated like a human being is total horseshit. But suggesting that you have the right to treat her exactly as you please because she didn’t adhere to your archaic views of feminine propriety is misogyny, plain and simple."

— Clementine Ford (via jkwithers)

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July 25, 2014

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July 25, 2014

I’m rewatching this and I feel like this line is so underrated

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